Always, always, alwayyyyys reblog.

I feel like people really need to realize this. People need to open up their minds and realize that being the age that we are now, is ALL about exploring. It’s all about doing what you LOVE, and doing whatever you want. Have FUN go out and be with friends, love and be with different people. You’re only this age for so long that once you’re older with a family and a job, you can’t get this part of your life back. Make sure when you get older and you look back to your 20s that you won’t regret a single bit of it.
Do things that scare you, do things you have never done.. but ALWAYS to a certain extent. All I have to say is HAVE FUN, and do what you love. Go for your dreams because the last thing you want to do is look back regretting not doing something.
Every age/decade has it’s perks of how life should be. This is the age where we have the most freedom.. so take advantage of it people!




Life’s too short to care about people who no longer care about you. Just focus on the things that make you happy and leave behind the things that make you sad. Things may not be great and dandy now, but always have hope for the future. In the meantime, never forget that the present is a blessing because tomorrow is never guaranteed. Accept what you had, appreciate what you have, and anticipate what you will have in the years to come.


I’ve always hated growing apart from people. You end up becoming two completely different individuals and it gets to a point where you just don’t meet eachother halfway anymore. You value different things and your tastes end up colliding. It’s not fair sometimes. Because nomatter how much you wish it didn’t turn out this way, the reality is that it is what it is. Acceptance is key, even if it means having to let go of those who were once so important to you.


25 Things To Do Before You Turn 25

1. Make peace with your parents. Whether you finally recognize that they actually have your best interests in mind or you forgive them for being flawed human beings, you can’t happily enter adulthood with that familial brand of resentment.

2. Kiss someone you think is out of your league; kiss models and med students and entrepreneurs with part-time lives in Dubai and don’t worry about if they’re going to call you afterward.

3. Minimize your passivity.

4. Work a service job to gain some understanding of how tipping works, how to keep your cool around assholes, how a few kind words can change someone’s day.

5. Recognize freedom as a 5:30 a.m. trip to the diner with a bunch of strangers you’ve just met.

6. Try not to beat yourself up over having obtained a ‘useless’ Bachelor’s Degree. Debt is hell, and things didn’t pan out quite like you expected, but you did get to go to college, and having a degree isn’t the worst thing in the world to have. We will figure this mess out, I think, probably; the point is you’re not worth less just because there hasn’t been an immediate pay off for going to school. Be patient, work with what you have, and remember that a lot of us are in this together.

7. If you’re employed in any capacity, open a savings account. You never know when you might be unemployed or in desperate need of getting away for a few days. Even $10 a week is $520 more a year than you would’ve had otherwise.

8. Make a habit of going outside, enjoying the light, relearning your friends, forgetting the internet.

9. Go on a 4-day, brunch-fueled bender.

10. Start a relationship with your crush by telling them that you want them. Directly. Like, look them in the face and say it to them. Say, I want you. I want to be with you.

11. Learn to say ‘no’ — to yourself. Don’t keep wearing high heels if you hate them; don’t keep smoking if you’re disgusted by the way you smell the morning after; stop wasting entire days on your couch if you’re going to complain about missing the sun.

12. Take time to revisit the places that made you who you are: the apartment you grew up in, your middle school, your hometown. These places may or may not be here forever; you definitely won’t be.

13. Find a hobby that makes being alone feel lovely and empowering and like something to look forward to.

14. Think you know yourself until you meet someone better than you.

15. Forget who you are, what your priorities are, and how a person should be.

16. Identify your fears and instead of letting them dictate your every move, find and talk to people who have overcome them. Don’t settle for experiencing .000002% of what the world has to offer because you’re afraid of getting on a plane.

17. Make a habit of cleaning up and letting go. Just because it fit at one point doesn’t mean you need to keep it forever — whether ‘it’ is your favorite pair of pants or your ex.

18. Stop hating yourself.

19. Go out and watch that movie, read that book, listen to that band you already lied about watching, reading, listening to.

20. Take advantage of health insurance while you have it.

21. Make a habit of telling people how you feel, whether it means writing a gushing fan-girl email to someone whose work you love or telling your boss why you deserve a raise.

22. Date someone who says, “I love you” first.

23. Leave the country under the premise of “finding yourself.” This will be unsuccessful. Places do not change people. Instead, do a lot of solo drinking, read a lot of books, have sex in dirty hostels, and come home when you start to miss it.

24. Suck it up and buy a Macbook Pro.

25. Quit that job that’s making you miserable, end the relationship that makes you act like a lunatic, lose the friend whose sole purpose in life is making you feel like you’re perpetually on the verge of vomiting. You’re young, you’re resilient, there are other jobs and relationships and friends if you’re patient and open.


January Nelson (via tyleroakley)

(Source: lydiamichelle, via princess-sam)

so true LOL